The Poetry of Marie Howe: Where the Wall Gives Way

Marie Howe
© Brad Fowler
COURTESY OF Blue Flower Arts

MARIE HOWE is the author of three volumes of poetry: The Kingdom of Ordinary Time (W.W. Norton, 2008); The Good Thief (Persea Books, 1988); and What the Living Do (W.W. Norton, 1999), and is the co-editor of a book of essays, In the Company of My Solitude: American Writing from the AIDS Pandemic (Persea Books, 1995). Stanley Kunitz selected Howe for a Lavan Younger Poets Prize from the American Academy of Poets. She has been a fellow at the Bunting Institute at Radcliffe College and a recipient of NEA and Guggenheim fellowships. Her poems have appeared in The New Yorker, The Atlantic, Poetry, AGNI, Ploughsahres, Harvard Review, and The Partisan Review, among others. Currently, Howe teaches creative writing at Sarah Lawrence College, Columbia, and New York University. Read more at www.mariehowe.com


Artistic expression, for many, is based on experience and understanding, with originality arising, for the most part, from the writer’s particular vision and imagination. What is imagination for you? How much of it transcends and how far does it govern the working process?

I don’t know how to think about imagination apart from consciousness. What do we mean when we say someone is “imaginative?” My daughter is – she makes things up, she pretends in great detail and creates a world that never actually “happens” in time and space as we know it. That seems to be the realm of what we call “ fiction” writers and it’s a world I can’t imagine for myself. In my daughter’s un-pretend world she delights in wondering how or why and what if — that’s imagination too, of course. And that’s more the kind of imagination that might come into my poems. Consciousness seems to be the word I’d favor — which is made up of so many aspects: memory, desire, stored knowledge, wonderings, image-making — and all the connections that occur in the act of writing. But all of this that we are trying to talk about is fluid, ephemeral — ever passing and changing — clouds crossing an October sky. The miracle of writing is that in doing it something can occur that hasn’t happened yet. But I don’t know how to talk about what that is in words.

You have said that you are interested in the metaphysical. How do you define the metaphysical?

I am interested in the experienced world — the world of clinking cutlery and the barking dog, and what people say when walking along the sidewalk – the physical world we’d call it but I don’t see that world as separate from the metaphysical.

Metaphysical refers to what might be beyond that which we can discern with our senses.

But even the world beyond isn’t quite right, is it?

What did Blake say? “Man has no Body distinct from his Soul; for that call’d Body is a portion of the Soul discern’d by the five senses, the chief inlet of Soul in this age.” Sometimes it seems that the physical world is — the partial expression — of whatever else that is that we can’t discern. A ruffle, a spine breaking the surface, a wave. Because we have only five senses we can only see some of it — but we are it as well. And so there’s no division.


The Kingdom of Ordinary Time

The Kingdom of Ordinary Time
BY Marie Howe
(W.W. Norton, 2009)

What the Living Do

What the Living Do
BY Marie Howe
(W.W. Norton, 1999)

The Good Thief

The Good Thief
BY Marie Howe
(Persea Books, 1988)


Your introduction for In the Company of My Solitude, an anthology of American writing about AIDS which you co-edited with Michael Klein, is beautifully touching and tenderly honest. You quoted your brother John as saying: “I know I’m going to die soon… What surprises me is that you don’t.” “But I do know,” I said. He said, “Know what?” and I said, “Know that you’re going to die,” and he said, “No, I’m surprised that you don’t know that you are.” A monk I knew once said that truly realizing one’s own mortality can be very frightening but also tremendously liberating. In that passage, your brother seems deeply clear-minded, open and aware. What did you think when John said that?

John! Well, what can you say after that? I think we both laughed. I’m reminded of the five remembrances in Buddhism — but they could be from anywhere and apply to each of us — two of them are. I am of the nature to grow old. There is no way to escape growing old. I am of the nature to die; there is no way to escape death. Only the consequences of our actions remain…

I was thinking about this when cleaning out the car at the end of the summer — all this junk — folding chairs, and deflated blow-up swimming toys, moldy towels and CDs and among all the other detritus, Stanley Kunitz’s Collected Poems — a little warped, some of the pages water-stained — but there was (is) his life of action. Or some of it.

You did an interview for AGNI with David Elliot in which you commented, “Don’t you feel as if our lives are these compositions that we don’t really know how to make end?” Could you comment further on this thought?

Sometimes, it’s lucky to grow older. My friend the novelist Jim Magnuson suggested that as one grows older, one’s life like a novel begins to take shape. That person on page 123 returns on 340 and some things might clarify or resolve. Or… Or… Time is malleable — my brother died at 28 and his life was complete. (“This is not a tragedy,” my brother said, “I am a happy man.”) Stanley died at 101 and his life, too, seemed complete (The last words he said were “Thank you.”) Those five remembrances come back. What remains of us is the consequences of our actions — so much of it we can’t see and will never know. For a writer, one consequence is one’s work.

In the poem, “Limbo,” from your book The Kingdom of Ordinary Time, the last line points to the way in which many people spend their time, usually caught up in so many things. What in your opinion is the most meaningful and productive use of a person’s time?

Oh, I can’t help but laugh out loud when I read your good question. Isn’t that the question on everyone’s mind now? How can I stop being so busy! John Berger has written beautifully and profoundly on this in his book The Shape of a Pocket. He suggests that the current economic world order is stirring up all this activity so that we stay in a state of agitation and hunger for what we might not even know — and so, in order to calm ourselves, we buy something. We become ever more avid consumers. It does seem that to stop, to slow down and to read, to walk with each other, to turn off the machines and be still is more and more an act of resistance to a culture that would have us ever in a frenzy. To read and to write poetry is a help in this endeavor.


Some writers sum up working with language as an act of finding the best way to express experience. What are your thoughts on language as the medium in which you work?

In my crib as child I could stand up and look at something framed on the nursery wall — the first “art” I remember — it held mystery and clarity at the same time. It was what is called a rebus story — a story (or a poem) told in text and pictures — and although I can’t remember what that text was about, or any of the pictures, I recall the physical feeling of looking at it, a warm rich feeling — private and public at once, and real. Real is the word — and the realness was between us — that framed picture/text and me.

Marie Howe
COURTESY OF Blue Flower Arts

Do you feel that many poets settle into a certain sensibility? How do you keep your own creative process fresh?

I don’t really know how you mean “settle into a certain sensibility.” Patti Smith has been wearing that white shirt and black jacket for years but when she opens her mouth — kaboom! I just heard her read and sing Blake last year at the Morgan Library and left dizzy and jubilant.

Emily Dickinson didn’t really ever change her style.

Sometimes someone finds a way — and through that way comes fire and light — for ever.

Sometimes, after some time, that way is closed.

I bang my head against the wall until I come to a place where the wall gives way to something else… it’s rare when that happens — and it hardly happens, and when and if it does — it feels like a miracle.

“Mary’s Argument” begins with the line, “To lead the uncommon life is not so bad.” This piece so skillfully expresses how the miraculous and the mundane are intertwined — if indeed they are not ultimately one and the same — and speaks of transcendence. What was the impetus behind this poem?

I’d write Christmas plays for my family and ask my brothers and sisters to be in them — we’d present them to our parents and any company that came over on Christmas Day. At first it was little kids with washcloths on their heads, secured with large rubber bands. In the 60s, angels appeared holding machine guns. When I was in graduate school I wrote the last Christmas play for my family of origin — “Mary’s Argument” came from that play. I’d been deeply influenced by W.H. Auden’s “Christmas Oratorio,” (from For The Time Being), a long poem where all the characters in the Nativity drama speak: not only Mary and Joseph, but the Shepherds, and Herod, and the three wise men, and the Star itself. Because Auden is a genius, each character speaks in a different meter. In this last play of mine I asked the characters to speak in iambic pentameter, if awkwardly. Mary in this little speech is talking to Joseph, trying to convince him to live an unconventional life with her.

What poets influenced you? Which works in particular have special meaning for you?

Every poet I’ve read has influenced me. Emily Dickinson, Walt Whitman, Robert Frost have always been very important. Poets who write out of necessity and urgency — Rilke and Hopkins, and Donne, Herbert… The women writers who began singing into the public world in the second half of the twentieth century have been crucial — too many to mention all by name but as a beginning… Sylvia Plath, Anne Sexton, Louise Bogan, Marianne Moore, Elizabeth Bishop, Adrianne Rich, Muriel Rukeyser, Audre Lorde, Lucille Clifton, Jean Valentine, Jane Cooper, Grace Paley, Lucy Tapahonso, Sharon Olds, Brenda Hillman…

What is your view on innovative poetry?

Innovative — the new. It loops around, doesn’t it? Marianne Moore was “sampling” and Muriel Rukeyser was putting charts and trial testimonies in poems over fifty years ago. George Herbert was writing poems in Shapes. All innovation is interesting — and necessary, as a correction to whatever’s prevalent. Once at Stanley Kunitz’s home in Provincetown, I was pouring through old Poetry magazines — he owned every single issue from the beginning. I was looking through an issue that seemed filled with perfectly conventional poems about Winter and Love and all of a sudden there’s “The Snake” by D.H. Lawrence! The force of that poem’s presence threw me back against the couch cushions. In another issue, among very conventional poems was a short one-page essay (essay?) by Ezra Pound exhorting poets to become musical. “Every poem ought to be able to be set to music!” he shouted from the page.

Bless the innovators, especially when they seem most strange and discordant — they bring life.

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